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清风
清风明月
3/13/2025, 6:07:36 AM
Is long-distance relationship viable for us according to our birth charts?
Category:
love
Reading Type:
double
Language:
en
Rating: 100 (4 votes)

Based on Chinese metaphysics, the viability of a long-distance relationship depends on mobility patterns (驿马星), emotional compatibility (日支合冲), and timing luck (流年运势) in your Bazi (八字). Let me break it down simply:


1. Look for "Horse Stars" (驿马星) in your charts

Horse Stars (寅、申、巳、亥 in the zodiac) indicate travel and adaptability.

  • If either of you has Horse Stars in your Day Branch (日支): You’re naturally suited for distance (e.g., a Day Master born in Yin 寅 or Shen 申).
  • If both lack Horse Stars: Emotional needs for closeness may clash with distance.

Example: A person born on Yi-Si day (乙巳日) has a Horse Star (巳) in their Day Branch. They’ll handle distance better than someone born on Ding-Mao day (丁卯日), which lacks mobility energy.


2. Check for "Clashing" or "Harmonizing" in Day Branches

  • Clash (冲): If your Day Branches clash (e.g., Zi 子 vs Wu 午), distance may amplify conflicts.
  • Harmony (合): If they harmonize (e.g., Yin 寅 + Xu 戌), trust and communication thrive even apart.

Example: A Zi 子 (Rat) and Wu 午 (Horse) pairing has a natural clash. Without frequent reunions, misunderstandings could escalate.


3. 2025 (乙巳 Year) – A "Horse Star" Year

2025 is the *Yi-Si year (乙巳), where Si 巳 is a Horse Star. This signals:

  • Travel opportunities or career moves that could extend the distance.
  • For couples with Horse Stars: This year supports adaptability.
  • For others: It may strain the relationship unless you plan regular meetups (ideally in Fire months like June/July 2025).

4. Element Compatibility

  • Strong Water/Fire in charts: Water needs emotional depth (hard to sustain remotely), while Fire craves passion (may fade without physical presence).
  • Earth/Metal dominance: More pragmatic; can endure distance if goals align.

Example: A Water Day Master (壬/癸) with a Fire partner (丙/丁) might struggle with emotional disconnect. Scheduling video calls during Fire hours (9 AM–3 PM) can help balance this.


Practical Advice:

  • If your charts have Horse Stars or harmonious Day Branches: Use 2025 to grow individually while planning reunions.
  • If clashing or emotionally needy elements dominate: Aim to close the distance by late 2026 (Fire Monkey year), which favors relocation.

Without your exact birth charts, focus on these patterns. If you know your Day Masters (e.g., 甲木, 癸水), I can refine this further! 🌟

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