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In Chinese metaphysics (Bazi or Zi Wei Dou Shu), reconciling with an ex-partner depends on compatibility patterns and timing dynamics in both individuals’ birth charts, as well as the energy of the current year (2025, 乙巳 Yǐ-Sì). Here’s how to assess this:

Key Factors to Consider

1. Original Compatibility (命盘合婚)

   • Check if your birth charts (年柱, 月柱, 日柱, 时柱) have complementary elements (e.g., Wood needs Water, Fire needs Wood).
   • Look for harmonious interactions between your "Day Masters" (日主). For example:
     • If your Day Master is 甲木 (Yang Wood) and your ex’s is 己土 (Yin Earth), the甲-己合 forms a favorable bond.
     • Avoid clashes like 冲 (clash) or 刑 (torture) between your zodiac signs (e.g., Rat vs. Horse).

2. Current Luck Cycle (大运)

   • Are either of you in a relationship-friendly luck cycle? For instance:
     • A 正官 (Zheng Guan – "Proper Authority") or 正财 (Zheng Cai – "Proper Wealth") phase often favors stable relationships.
     • A 伤官 (Shang Guan – "Hurting Officer") phase may bring emotional turbulence.

3. 2025’s Influence (乙巳年)

   • The year 2025 is 乙木 (Yin Wood) over 巳火 (Snake – Yin Fire). Key points:
     • 巳火 is associated with passion, transformation, and hidden conflicts.
     • If your chart has 申 (Monkey) or 亥 (Pig), 巳 may clash (巳申合水但相刑, 巳亥冲), creating tension.
     • If your chart lacks Fire, 2025’s 巳火 could ignite opportunities for reconnection.

Example Analysis

Suppose your 日支 (Day Branch – spouse palace) is 申 (Monkey) and your ex’s is 亥 (Pig):

• 2025’s 巳火 will 冲亥 (clash Pig) and 合申 (bind Monkey). This creates mixed signals:
  • The clash may revive old arguments (冲亥).
  • The合申 could spark nostalgia or a desire to reconnect.
• Outcome: A brief window for communication, but long-term reconciliation requires resolving past issues.

Action Steps

1. Check for 合 (He – Harmony) in your charts. If you have 三合 (Triple Harmony) or 六合 (Six Harmony), reconciliation is more likely.
2. Analyze 2025’s impact: If 巳火 is your 桃花 (Peach Blossom – romance star), it may reignite feelings.
3. Timing: The best months for reconnection are May–July 2025 (巳月–未月), when Fire/Earth energy stabilizes emotions.

Final Note

While astrology provides clues, relationships ultimately depend on mutual effort. If your charts show potential synergy in 2025 (e.g., Wood-Fire mutual growth), use this energy to communicate openly. However, avoid forcing outcomes if the charts reveal persistent clashes (e.g., Metal-Wood opposition). Balance fate with free will! 🌱🔥